Well, after a few days of stressing out over webstart issues I've finally got it all working... I think. Visit my gloriously awesome website to play the gamehttp://gufbal.com/dan/
Or if you can't stand all the clutter on that site you could skip all three words and go to http://gufbal.com/dan/startup.jnlp
At some point I might include a few instructions on the website but I've been busy with other things (strangling the life out of webstart).
I have no way to test the linux, solaris and mac jars locally so someone let me know if things work. There is a good chance that the fullscreen stuff might cause an issue on linux or that all kinds of nightmares will startup.
Let me know what you guys think (this is my first ogl game, first 3d game, it was intended as a learning experience but it took a lot longer than I expected, which I should just learn to expect, because that's how it always works).